Dating a man with a young son dating a man with a young son
He is divorced and has as little as possible to do with the ex-wife. I'm trying to overcome the bond that they have that I don't have with him. I don't need him to take care of me because I have a great career and I help take care of him financially. Hopefully, it can become something more permanent in the future. I was married for ten years, have four beautiful boys under 9 and have a very fulfilling and successful career.I believe I have a lot to offer – I am caring, kind, warm, loyal and intelligent. I am not looking for a father for the boys; they have one. It’s like running experiments on a little clone of yourself! It’s disappointing how many people have children and miss this golden opportunity, usually waiting until they’re in their teens to start playing mindgames with them. I’d brainstormed a long list of sociological and psychological experiments with friends and coworkers, ready to unleash my inner Milgram on my unborn offspring.I have never dated a guy with a kid before, I haven't ever wanted to take on the challenge before, except this guy is mere perfect. She wants him to leave me alone like yesterday's old news. I realize my son is a grown man who is very capable of making his own decisions.
She doesn't have to worry that I'm trying to get him to marry me so I can get a brown ID card. If it's true, I don't think I can deal with him in a long-term relationship because there's nothing his mother can tell me. Yes, I love her son and I would love to see where this relationship goes. I entered the dating scene again, and guess what happened? She is having a tizzy that her son is dating a woman in her mid- to late-40s. Well, the relationship is great, but the worst part is that he told his mother about me.There are many postive things - I love him very much and the child is very affectionate and loving to me.But, I feel like I lose my relationship every other week and endure things I am not comfortable with. I have never had children or a divorce, so this is new to me. Samantha, I recognize how difficult it can be to enter into a relationship with a man who has a child.
I guess I must be in reasonable shape because NOBODY can guess I’ve even had four kids, or that I’m even 34 (I get asked out by guys in their early 20s- I feel like I should read them a story and tuck them into bed… we usually go on a few dates, everything is going wonderful… I’m not talking about church bells, but just to an actual relationship. I am sick of being treated like a piece of ass, and treated like I must be desperate because I have kids.